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How texting affects communication: when texting becomes lazy
Hear me out: Is texting lazy? How texting affects communication It’s funny – texting was designed as a tool to make communication easier, quicker and efficient when, actually, texting has made us socially lazy. IMO, texting has become so default and chronic that, hear me…
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3 Reasons breakup texts are overrated and why you should stop sending them
Are there instances where breaking up over text makes the most sense? Absolutely, but they should be a last-ditch effort…not the norm. It would be hypocritical of me to condemn breakup texts when even I ended one of my previous long-term relationships over text message.…
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After 10 years of marriage, these are the 6 most impactful things I’ve learned
I’m sharing my personal experience and insight of being married for 10 years, and some of the unfiltered realities marriage has taught me after a decade. 10 years. As I sit here and write out this post, I’m flip flopping between having a lot to…
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7 Super obvious online dating red flags to watch out for (in 2026)
Online dating surely has its perks but not without its woes, which is why it’s important to spot the red flags. It’s pretty easy to find statistics that confirm tens of millions of people from…
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Why the bad boy type is seemingly more attractive
Do the bad boy types get more attention from women? Many women still tend to fall for the bad boy type, even in the midst of the whole choosing the bear. Do bad boys still…
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What dating to marry does NOT mean
Dating for marriage – what it does not mean I thought about writing a post about what dating to marry means in dating culture, but then I thought it would be MUCH easier to explain…
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11 Cutsy follow-up texts to send after a first date
It should be important to note that I am addressing both guys and gals here, and that both ought to be comfortable sending follow-ups, especially if you like them. Besides, we really ought to end…
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It’s 2026: These are the first date topics you should be covering – no excuses
A first date is your initial window to unveil not just potential connection but also compatibility, and there are certain, no-brainer topics that should be discussed on a first date. I believe in dating with…
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