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In a relationship, you're still human

Remember, you’re still human in a relationship

Whether you’re dating someone new or you’re in a committed relationship, remember, you’re still human. Does this really need to be said? Yes, yes it does. And I think many will be bamboozled when they read this post, mainly because the brain will go, “Yeah, of course, duh,” but then also be like, “Oh? Ohhhhh.“

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A great deal of thought and consideration goes into choosing a partner. But sometimes, the reality is...many may also be settling in a relationship, and this post dives into the signs according to someone who did. Yes, yours truly.

8 Signs you may be settling in a relationship, according to someone who did

After thinking long and hard on this, it really dawned on me how we’re all afraid to admit just how much we settle for things in life. I mean, on days we don’t feel like putting in the effort to cook, we settle for something to eat that’s quick and not always nutritious, right? And

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I notice this quite a bit - men who genuinely believe their relationship is *improving* when actually it's the opposite. She's moved on, like done-zo - checked out of the relationship. I don't totally understand men's logic on this one (granted, women share this, too, just *different*) but I imagine it's simply because the arguing, bickering and fighting has either dwindled or come to a screeching halt...and not by the authentic efforts for improvement.

Dear men, the relationship isn’t improving – she’s moved on

I notice this quite a bit – men who genuinely believe their relationship is *improving* when actually it’s the opposite. She’s moved on, like done-zo – checked out of the relationship. I don’t totally understand men’s logic on this one (granted, women share this, too, just *different*) but I imagine it’s simply because the arguing,

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Or, for those who may need better clarity, here's to detecting the guy who's only in it for the sex. But more importantly, the ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count. Still, sometimes it's much easier to find Waldo in villain form first, so that's the focus here. This post may not entirely rub you the right way, buuuuut that's kind of the point because where there's discomfort in our lives is something needing to surface.

3 Ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count (sex)

Or, for those who may need better clarity, here’s to detecting the guy who’s only in it for the sex. But more importantly, the ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count. Still, sometimes it’s much easier to find Waldo in villain form first, so that’s the focus here. This post

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It's no surprise - we're already quick to label clinginess by its select and stereotypical qualities. But what are some of the brushed-under-the-rug signs of a clingy relationship? You know, the soft spots we're not really ready to touch on, or admit.

8 Signs of a clingy relationship

It’s no surprise – we’re already quick to label clinginess by its select and stereotypical qualities. But what are some of the brushed-under-the-rug signs of a clingy relationship? You know, the soft spots we’re not really ready to touch on, or admit. This isn’t talked about as much, but the damaging effects – IMO –

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