I’m not afraid to admit it – as a married woman, relationship-care and self-care are congruently interconnected. Relationship-care is also self-care, yet why is this statement so combative? That’s a personal question to ask and unpack yourself. Putting effort into and towards my marriage ultimately makes me *feel good*, as it should! The same way […]
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If you’re looking for Love, dating can be hard, especially in a very digital-focused, online-based world. From simply meeting people to actually getting to know them has changed, and not necessarily to a better alternative. Maybe getting a date isn’t the problem – that’s why I came up with five important, self-reflective questions to ask
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So he claims he’s not interested but keeps texting you anyway? What gives? Unfortunately, you have to be willing to ask yourself one simple question: “Do you truly want an answer, or are you only looking for what you want to hear?” Because if this wishy-washy behavior leaves you with more questions than certainty, I’m
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Dating today – has it been replaced, or destroyed, by Hookup Culture? It seems as if dating is now the black sheep, the outcast, and plagued to the point of unrecognition. It is is also seemingly undesirable and, to many, impossible. Personally I think Hookup Culture is much to blame. Sure, not everyone bows down
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We all know by now that trust is the easiest to lose, and the hardest to regain. And in relationships trust is easily and most obviously broken by things like deceit (lying, dishonesty, secrecy) and infidelity (cheating, disloyalty), but what about the not-so -obvious? The subtle ways trust can be lost or broken in relationships
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Dear men, the literal fact is you keep missing the point. Notice, in caps, that I said want. This isn’t a matter of why she won’t; she won’t have sex with you, say, because she is waiting until marriage. This post extends to the bracket [of men] [with women] who fail to recognize the spectrum
Dear men, here’s why she doesn’t WANT to have sex Read More »
Is it safe to say we tend to fall in love, or love someone, for the wrong reasons? Part of me thinks we know it, too – yee-ouch. And then we’re disappointed when Love fails us because we placed our faith in the most unpredictable, unstable aspects of what we believed to be Love. Yeah,
Are you really in love? Because these are not it. Read More »
A guy who likes you will respect you – (8 Signs) Sometimes I feel like the meaning of respect gets watered down, you know? We pick and choose what suits our definition best (or what resonates most). Like, respect is how we treat others. Or, respect is having high regard or admiration for someone. Or,
When a man respects you, he WANTS you to know [..] Read More »
LBR, online dating is not getting any easier. I met my [now] husband online back in 2012, and here are my 50+ online dating success secrets. Okaaaayyy, I realize that is basically a different era now, and a lot has changed since then, but I am confident that my slew of advice still applies to today.
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With computer programming as a second language to me, I like to code and decode things, because everything has a meaning and a purpose. For all of us, texting has also become another language. And I hate to admit that it has value in our daily lives, because it does, but texting has also proven
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