Forgiving someone who hurt you and trusting them again isn’t easy – not impossible but not effortless, either. If forgiving your partner were impossible, relationships would inevitably be doomed to fail, which would also indicate their insignificance and little value in our lives. Though, it’s still incredibly painful when having to bear the question of
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Is labeling or fantasizing a coworker as a work spouse (work wife or work husband) considered cheating, and is there more behind it? When you’re in a relationship or married, having a work spouse is cheating. And there’s no changing my mind on this one. Leave this glamorized and, nowadays, normalized workplace trend to the
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Are digital boundaries surrounding our socials and devices important in marriage? My husband and I are open with our passwords and have no secrets. Our devices are also not considered “off limits” with respect for boundaries. PSA: There’s a way to be transparent about your devices, digital privacy and boundaries in marriage while also maintaining
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How to rebuild trust when it’s been broken To rebuild trust in a relationship, regardless of who did wrong, is a two-way street. We know that, right? It’s a teeter-tottering of give and receive. Trust can only be rebuilt if the bids for trust are not just modeled but received. Unfortunately, how often do we
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Do the bad boy types get more attention from women? Many women still tend to fall for the bad boy type, even in the midst of the whole choosing the bear. Do bad boys still seem to get more attention from women over the “nice guys”? After all….they’re the type we know is trouble or
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I see this posed in a question quite often. “He says he’s not into me, but he…[does or says this thing that doesn’t align with that]. So, what does this mean now?” Have you experienced this – when he says he’s not interested yet his behavior says otherwise? I think it’s important, more important, rather
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Dating for marriage – what it does not mean I thought about writing a post about what dating to marry means in dating culture, but then I thought it would be MUCH easier to explain what it does not mean. Let’s dive in. Dating for marriage or dating to marry is a bit newer language
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Marriage, friendships, boundaries and emotional infidelity – the important questions to ask I think the better question to ask is when, because many are quick to answer the title of this post with a big, fat, hard NO or YES. I think the answer is they can be, but what we really should be asking
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If they cheated, are they destined to repeat? If you asked me in my 20s, or even within the last 5 years, I would say absolutely, “Once a cheater always a cheater.” I also used to believe cheating was unforgivable and unredeemable (I’ve even stated this in older posts from 5+ years ago). Has that
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It should be important to note that I am addressing both guys and gals here, and that both ought to be comfortable sending follow-ups, especially if you like them. Besides, we really ought to end the fear and negative stigma when it comes to texting following a first date. Look, it’s just not *cool* to
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