Category: For the Men

  • 4 Red flag DMs to ignore, block and delete

    Whether you’re online dating or into someone sliding into your DMs on social media, there are 4 red flag DMs to ignore, block AND delete! While we’re quick to preach against ghosting in the dating world, the primary incentive here is not only to prevent from wasting your time but also your protection. In all…

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  • Cheating on your partner starts with you, not in the bedroom (30+ examples)

    We’re not going to like it but we’re going there. It pains me to even have to say in this day and age…but cheating on your partner doesn’t start in the bedroom! It starts with you. I think we all know this – we’re aware of it – yet we’re hell-bent on supporting our imperfectness…

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  • 25+ Things to say to an anxious attached partner (that actually help)

    Those who actually read this post are most likely to have an anxious attachment style (not to be confused with the fearful avoidant attachment). Because, alas, I find that it’s the anxiously attached partners who are also more likely to seek out answers and resources. If you aren’t that partner, then I hope this can…

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  • Dear men, the relationship isn’t improving – she’s moved on

    I notice this quite a bit – men who genuinely believe their relationship is *improving* when actually it’s the opposite. She’s moved on, like done-zo – checked out of the relationship. I don’t totally understand men’s logic on this one (granted, women share this, too, just *different*) but I imagine it’s simply because the arguing,…

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  • 8 Signs of a clingy relationship

    It’s no surprise – we’re already quick to label clinginess by its select and stereotypical qualities. But what are some of the brushed-under-the-rug signs of a clingy relationship? You know, the soft spots we’re not really ready to touch on, or admit. This isn’t talked about as much, but the damaging effects – IMO –…

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