marriage

On the surface, many would say my marriage is unequal, unethical, outdated and, well, oppressive. To some, I am the face of disgrace as to how far women have come. Those might perfectly describe me as that traditional, submissive wife, or 50's housewife. I mean, that much is true - on the outside we fit the bill of some of the most frowned-upon stereotypes in modern relationships.

50/50 in marriage equality – why I believe it’s impossible

On the surface, many would say my marriage is unequal, unethical, outdated and, well, oppressive. To some, I am the face of disgrace as to how far women have come. Those might perfectly describe me as that traditional, submissive wife, or 50’s housewife. I mean, that much is true – on the outside we fit […]

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And that might be part of the problem - basing gift ideas solely on what the other person asks for. As adults, that isn't always reliable or achievable. So what then? That's when I decided to come up with a gift guide for couples. Since Christmas is second runner-up for being the most romantic time of year, I thought of this being the perfect opportunity to create a guide to bring the romance.

Gift guide for couples – 7 Ways to bring the romance for the Holidays

This post received complimentary product by Kisses 4 Us® in exchange for a gift guide recognition. The Holidays are right around the corner! Um, yesterday was June I thought? And that’s what happens when you blink. Before you know it, you’re trying to remember all the things you came across throughout the year and said

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Since gaslighting is a control tactic through manipulation, it's almost a guarantee you have been gaslit at some point in your life - even thanks to politics, specialists, marketing, corporations, culture and social media. Gaslighting in relationships is no exception either. But while we're pretty hyper-focused on the things in which happen to us, are we REALLY willing to ask ourselves, "Is it me? Am I the problem?" Are YOU the one doing the gaslighting?

4 Signs of gaslighting in relationships – hello, it’s coming from you!

Since gaslighting is a control tactic through manipulation, it’s almost a guarantee you have been gaslit at some point in your life – even thanks to politics, specialists, marketing, corporations, culture and social media. Gaslighting in relationships is no exception either. But while we’re pretty hyper-focused on the things in which happen to us, are

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When He Won’t Open Up Emotionally [What I’ve Learned + Started Doing] | If you're struggling to get him to open up to emotionally, here's what you need to know - what I've learned and started doing | How to encourage your spouse to be open and emotionally connected in the relationship | #couplesgoals #marraige #relationships | theMRSingLink

How to get him to open up emotionally + what I’ve learned

It’s easy to limit ourselves when it comes to the meaning of expression. And I think it’s quite obvious that most women have an easier time demonstrating their feelings and emotions, as well as opening up emotionally to their spouse and others. Meaning we’re [more] readily available to talk about them and willing to show

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6 Qualities Of Couples Who Balance Friendship And Partnership In Marriage | I lean and depend on my husband. Not because I'm weak, incapable or dependent, but that I simply enable myself to be vulnerable, which strengthens our bond and reinforces trust in our marriage | #marriage | Why the balance of friendship and partnership in marriage is so important | #couplesgoals | theMRSingLink

6 Qualities of happy couples that are undervalued today

I recently read on the grapevine of the interwebs that friendship is detrimental to marriage. Seriously, what a load of crock. I sat anxiously at my desk coming up with as many reasons WHY friendship is part of what MAKES my husband and I thrive. Please, someone, please tell me how partnership is what solely drives

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Why A Life And Love Improvement Blog, Anyway | 6 Reasons I started a blog on life + love improvement for women | All about relationships, dating and marriage + how it pertains to self improvement | #love #selfimprovement #relationships #blogger | theMRSingLink

Why A Life And Love Improvement Blog, Anyway? [6 Reasons]

Oh how far TML has come! Almost technically 3 years in the making, and 2 years as a full-time, all in or nothing blogger, designer and entrepreneur. Yes, I still have to correct the spelling of that word… every time. #noshame And you know, I have yet to actually celebrate a “bloggiversary” – which is coming up

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Boundaries To Protect Your Marriage From An Affair | Cheating doesn't start with sex, or the bedroom, but with intention by jeopardizing the integrity of marriage | Ways to avoid having an affair, and to ensure that the risk of cheating never comes between you and your spouse | Cheating is a choice - fidelity is also a choice | Why you must intentionally do right by your spouse (not by your feelings) in order to uphold loyalty and faithfulness in marriage | #marriage #infidelity #affairrecovery #marriagehelp | theMRSingLink

Boundaries you need to protect your marriage from an affair

Did you know there are necessary boundaries to protect your marriage from an affair? I know, I know, some of ya’ll be like, “BuT wHy Do I nEeD tO pRoTeCt My MaRrIaGe FrOm SoMeThInG i WoUlD nEvEr Do? My PaRtNeR sHoUlD jUsT tRuSt Me!“ Okay, then: Why do you need an alarm system? You should

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Why He Stopped Being Romantic [After You Signed That Dotted Line] | Why he has stopped being romantic and how to bring the romance back into your marriage or relationship | #relationships #marriage #romance | theMRSingLink

You’re exclusive, but now he stopped being romantic

When we think of romance – we think heart-stopping butterflies, that vigorous desire for adventure and the anticipation of endless possibilities with someone special. When we’re romanced, we feel good – it is what it is. And when we have this feeling from that perfect person, it should last a lifetime on its own, right?

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