Love

Closure - it's all about the 'what' and 'why' of uncertainty in an attempt to fix or control the outcome or ending of a relationship. The wanting to know what you did wrong, what you could do or could have done different, what changed so substantially or abruptly, why you weren't given the time of day or second chance, why they didn't have the decency to do or say this or that instead of calling it quits and why you weren't worth the effort or simply enough?

How to find closure from a past relationship and move on

Closure – it’s all about the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of uncertainty in an attempt to fix or control the outcome or ending of a relationship. The wanting to know what you did wrong, what you could do or could have done different, what changed so substantially or abruptly, why you weren’t given the time of

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Traveling as a couple will test your relationship, and you'll learn 7 things about one another that can also reveal whether or not you're truly compatible. Even if you're just dating, you might think of traveling together as fast-forwarding your relationship in time.

7 Ways traveling as a couple will test your relationship

Traveling as a couple will test your relationship, and you’ll learn 7 things about one another that can also reveal whether or not you’re truly compatible. Even if you’re just dating, you might think of traveling together as fast-forwarding your relationship in time. Do this too soon, and you may run the risk of prematurely

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Does it even make sense?? Being more fearful of finding a good guy that doesn't come with all the drama-filled, emotionally exhausting, roller coaster ride of your previous toxic relationships?

When Finding A Good Guy Is Scarier Than Your Toxic Relationships

Does it even make sense?? Being more fearful of finding a good guy that doesn’t come with all the drama-filled, emotionally exhausting, roller coaster ride of your previous toxic relationships? Listen, that very fear is valid. But breathe easy when I say this transition through healing will pass. It won’t be easy at first, it’ll

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Hello to the innocent, closet-weird, shy girl of the early 2000s. You're 30 now, and I have yet to actually take the time to let you in on my secrets on Love and teenage boys as you enter that magical phase of your life. You'll probably roll your eyes at me (your future husband LOVES when you do that) but seriously, though, some of this stuff may come as no surprise to you since you were a late bloomer to "girlhood" - having a tomboyish personality and all. But I think that gives you the upper hand because you have always seemed to easily relate to boys from a young age. And that's nothing to feel ashamed of.

A letter to my teenage self about Love and boys – An open letter to my younger self about heartbreak

Hello to the innocent, closet-weird, shy girl of the early 2000s. You’re 30 now, and I have yet to actually take the time to let you in on my secrets on Love and teenage boys as you enter that magical phase of your life. You’ll probably roll your eyes at me (your future husband LOVES

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We're more than 4 years post pandemic, and the aftereffects are being felt everywhere - including the impacts its had on dating app connections. In this post, I discuss 3 online dating dangers that I personally think we're now up against.

How the pandemic impacts dating app connections – [3] Online dating dangers

[Written in 2020] Surprisingly enough, dating has become a legitimate struggle right now as we face this uncertain and indefinite lockdown. But I’ll bet more and more singles are logging on and signing up for dating sites. [Update in 2024] We’re more than 4 years post pandemic, and the aftereffects are being felt everywhere –

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Right now this so-called lockdown, staycation, work-from-home, solitary confinement or period of unwilful solitude - whatever you want to call it - is about to test everyone's relationships. Whether you're newly dating, in a relationship, living together or apart, engaged or married, this indirectly enforced stay-at-home confinement is going to be the ultimate test if your relationship is built to last.

A Relationship Built To Last Can Survive A Stay-At-Home Lockdown

Right now this so-called lockdown, staycation, work-from-home, solitary confinement or period of unwilful solitude – whatever you want to call it – is about to test everyone’s relationships. Whether you’re newly dating, in a relationship, living together or apart, engaged or married, this indirectly enforced stay-at-home confinement is going to be the ultimate test if

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I began dating online in, oof, 2009. I remember having to fill out a 100+ questionnaire and a dating profile that resembled a resume template. I have no doubt things are different since then, likely in not-so-good ways. Some dating apps may not even require you to fill out a full-on profile anymore (sad, sad, saaaad), and that's a huge problem. I am not surprised at all by the lack of success, and the status quo these dating apps only seem to care about.

This is every SUCCESSFUL Online Dating Profile [As Of 2020]

I began dating online in, oof, 2009. I remember having to fill out a 100+ questionnaire and a dating profile that resembled a resume template. I have no doubt things are different since then, likely in not-so-good ways. Some dating apps may not even require you to fill out a full-on profile anymore (sad, sad,

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Let's be real, there's going to come a time when you're in desperate need of things to do when you're confined to home or indoors with your partner. For instance, one of you or both are under the weather, it's raining cats and dogs outside or you're on standby for the AC guy to show up between that annoying 5-hour window.

25 Activities for couples when you’re confined to your home

Can’t do date night out? If you can’t leave the house, there are still plenty of fun activities for couples that can still keep you connected. Let’s be real, there’s going to come a time when you’re in desperate need of things to do when you’re confined to home or indoors with your partner. For

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