We all know by now that trust is the easiest to lose, and the hardest to regain. And in relationships trust is easily and most obviously broken by things like deceit (lying, dishonesty, secrecy) and infidelity (cheating, disloyalty), but what about the not-so -obvious? The subtle ways trust can be lost or broken in relationships […]
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Before deep-diving into this post, I first came up with a brief, rough-draft list. This list mounted well into the 20-something, yet I narrowed it down to the top 10 uncomfortable reasons you should not get married. Eeek. BUT, this post really isn’t all you think it will be. When I say uncomfortable reasons, what
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Assuming you are reading this – obviously – in your 20s, but more importantly, this [hopefully] being the time in your life when your friends are…well…life. Although this is more of an unconventional approach, I believe this is the time to make the most of your 20s *with your bestie(s)*. You and your crew are
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Dear men, the literal fact is you keep missing the point. Notice, in caps, that I said want. This isn’t a matter of why she won’t; she won’t have sex with you, say, because she is waiting until marriage. This post extends to the bracket [of men] [with women] who fail to recognize the spectrum
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Ask yourself the hard, pivotal post-breakup question when it comes to relationships: what does closure mean to me? And really, be frank, don’t hold back. Because that’s what this post is about – figuring out what it can actually mean to want closure, and maybe even closure you didn’t get. The hard truth is, on
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WHY dating is difficult…when men are, too! That is the question, and I have 3 main reasons. This post is for the ladies! To the dudes, you can read the post that answers your question as to why dating is difficult for guys. Before we dive in, I feel I need to preface by saying,
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Is it safe to say we tend to fall in love, or love someone, for the wrong reasons? Part of me thinks we know it, too – yee-ouch. And then we’re disappointed when Love fails us because we placed our faith in the most unpredictable, unstable aspects of what we believed to be Love. Yeah,
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You see a long-awaited grand opportunity filling you with butterflies – you’ve been wishing for him to make a big move or change of heart. Or maybe you’ve finally moved on, and suddenly your EX starts creeping back into your life. Orrrr you’re now in a tug-of-war with your heartstrings – the previous guy is
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I’m lifting the veil for some of ya’ll when I say social media can – it’s been proven it HAS – absolutely wreak havoc (and even destroy) your relationship. And I mean this *gently* because many of you are out there performing, fantasizing, idolizing, and acting day in and day out in your virtual world
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A guy who likes you will respect you – (8 Signs) Sometimes I feel like the meaning of respect gets watered down, you know? We pick and choose what suits our definition best (or what resonates most). Like, respect is how we treat others. Or, respect is having high regard or admiration for someone. Or,
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