Online Dating

I see this posed in a question quite often. "He says he's not into me, but he.... So, what does this mean now?" Have you experienced this - when he says he's not interested yet his behavior says otherwise?

When he says he’s not interested, but his behavior says otherwise

I see this posed in a question quite often. “He says he’s not into me, but he…[does or says this thing that doesn’t align with that]. So, what does this mean now?” Have you experienced this – when he says he’s not interested yet his behavior says otherwise? I think it’s important, more important, rather

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It should be important to note that I am addressing both guys and gals here, and that both ought to be comfortable sending follow-ups, especially if you like them. Besides, we really ought to end the fear and negative stigma when it comes to texting following a first date.

11 Cutsy follow-up texts to send after a first date

It should be important to note that I am addressing both guys and gals here, and that both ought to be comfortable sending follow-ups, especially if you like them. Besides, we really ought to end the fear and negative stigma when it comes to texting following a first date. Look, it’s just not *cool* to

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What is Love? Many are still asking this same question today, and I think the pendulum is always swinging. Through generations and culture, one day this is Love and the next it's not. For me, Love is unchanging; it's people who change. Since we live in a culture where we are constantly bombarded and consumed by the sharing of information and social influence, we're still bound to be surprised by these common myths about Love.

7 Myths about Love that may still surprise you

What is Love? Many are still asking this same question today, and I think the pendulum is always swinging. Through generations and culture, one day this is Love and the next it’s not. For me, Love is unchanging; it’s people who change. Since we live in a culture where we are constantly bombarded and consumed

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For context, I met my husband through online dating in late 2012. Prior to that I had been familiar with dating online, around 2009-2010ish. In total I spent give or take three years on dating sites, before there were dating apps, with a 2-year relationship in between. While I know online dating has changed and come a long way since then, I wanted to share what the experience was really like (for me) until I met my husband.

What online dating was really like until I met my husband

I share my personal experience using Match, OkCupid, eHarmony and Plenty of Fish, where I ultimately met my husband, and what the online dating experience was really like. For context, I met my husband through online dating in late 2012. Prior to that I had been familiar with dating online, around 2009-2010ish. In total I

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Or, for those who may need better clarity, here's to detecting the guy who's only in it for the sex. But more importantly, the ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count. Still, sometimes it's much easier to find Waldo in villain form first, so that's the focus here. This post may not entirely rub you the right way, buuuuut that's kind of the point because where there's discomfort in our lives is something needing to surface.

3 Ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count (sex)

Or, for those who may need better clarity, here’s to detecting the guy who’s only in it for the sex. But more importantly, the ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count. Still, sometimes it’s much easier to find Waldo in villain form first, so that’s the focus here. This post

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