Ask yourself the hard, pivotal post-breakup question when it comes to relationships: what does closure mean to me? And really, be frank, don’t hold back. Because that’s what this post is about – figuring out what it can actually mean to want closure, and maybe even closure you didn’t get. The hard truth is, on […]
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WHY dating is difficult…when men are, too! That is the question, and I have 3 main reasons. This post is for the ladies! To the dudes, you can read the post that answers your question as to why dating is difficult for guys. Before we dive in, I feel I need to preface by saying,
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A guy who likes you will respect you – (8 Signs) Sometimes I feel like the meaning of respect gets watered down, you know? We pick and choose what suits our definition best (or what resonates most). Like, respect is how we treat others. Or, respect is having high regard or admiration for someone. Or,
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LBR, online dating is not getting any easier. I met my [now] husband online back in 2012, and here are my 50+ online dating success secrets. Okaaaayyy, I realize that is basically a different era now, and a lot has changed since then, but I am confident that my slew of advice still applies to today.
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There are subtle signs and clear signs that the guy you’re dating isn’t being totally honest or upfront with you – on the extreme end, he may even be a compulsive liar. Sometimes these signs aren’t flat-out noticeable, especially when you’re not looking for them. And if these signs go unresolved, you could be headed
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Or, rather…gently and sincerely. Regardless, severing the cord and letting someone down with the uncomfortable “truth” won’t always be a cakewalk. TBH, if you’re not prepared to face rejection…seriously, don’t date. And the lesson here is how to let someone down instead of ghosting them. Relationships shouldn’t be like walking the tight rope. Avoiding or
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People too often forget that communicating your dating boundaries is about what you want and don’t want.; setting boundaries with others is about honoring what you need, not driving or pushing people away. Otherwise, how does someone know they are stepping on your toes if you aren’t communicating that to them? Throw in the fact
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With computer programming as a second language to me, I like to code and decode things, because everything has a meaning and a purpose. For all of us, texting has also become another language. And I hate to admit that it has value in our daily lives, because it does, but texting has also proven
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Money and relationships are often depicted to be like oil and water – they don’t mix. Now it’s considered taboo in both the dating world and relationships. *If you’re in a committed relationship, you can head over to my post on How to Talk About Money in Relationships. The real problem is dating couples fail
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Is he ghosting you, or is he just not interested? Too often a label gets slapped on someone simply because we don’t like their behavior. The term ghosting in dating is one of them when, actually, he’s not ghosting you at all. I realize I’m stepping on hot coals and that even the title of
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