Too often a label gets slapped on someone simply because we’re easily triggered and offended. The term ghosting is no different. When, actually, they’re not ghosting you at all. In reality there’s a very real internal issue surfacing. Oope. I realize I am stepping on hot coals just from this post and that even the […]
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What having a “type” actually means and where it stems from, why your “type” may be more “restricting” than helpful, and how to evolve from dating strictly within your “type” – these are questions you will find answers to within this post. So if your dating “type” has failed you or always seems to bring
If you haven’t found Love from your dating “type”, read this Read More »
This may get me in trouble, I don’t care, but I’m not into “following my heart”. The heart is deceptive because it desires chaos (in the name of man’s version of Love and what we deem as “passion”), which often led me along the path of blind ignorance and self-destruction. Woo-wee. So when it comes
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We need to STOP romanticizing dating red flags. Because…”What you allow is what will continue,”, “The treatment we tolerate from others is a reflection of how we treat ourselves,”, and “Your worth is not determined by self-neglect.” Just a little dating food for thought there, since I am speaking from the very position where I,
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I could say the guy should pay. I could also say the woman should offer, or whoever does the asking out should take responsibility. But damn is it ever NOT that simple. Why? Because as relationship equality would have it, it’s equally both parties’ duty to put in equal effort (including splitting the bill). So
Who should pay for a date? The simple answer. Read More »
[Written in 2020] Surprisingly enough, dating has become a legitimate struggle right now as we face this uncertain and indefinite lockdown. But I’ll bet more and more singles are logging on and signing up for dating sites. [Update in 2024] We’re more than 4 years post pandemic, and the aftereffects are being felt everywhere –
How the pandemic impacts dating app connections – [3] Online dating dangers Read More »
I began dating online in, oof, 2009. I remember having to fill out a 100+ questionnaire and a dating profile that resembled a resume template. I have no doubt things are different since then, likely in not-so-good ways. Some dating apps may not even require you to fill out a full-on profile anymore (sad, sad,
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I see this question so often nowadays. It’s funny because when online dating first came about, it was hard then, too. We knew this because people have been having strictly online-based relationships for years, and we know how most of those end up. Yet here we are, where instantaneous, online connections are easily considered the
Why is online dating so hard in a tech world? Read More »