I am so excited to be sharing this with you. As I have been holding tight to memories of a journey I thought would never come to a happy end – there is finally reason for me to give you a little taste of success in the online dating world.
Over 4 long years, 1 very reluctant woman, a few estranged dates and learned life lessons, and the guy she literally never saw coming – let alone thought she’d end up with – that is now her husband, and prince charming. Some even say we look like brother and sister. I swear I am an only child!
Was online dating a breeze? Hell no. Far from it. And here I am trying to scare people off by speaking what comes to mind. But it’s true – online dating wasn’t easy. It was hectic, a rush of whirlwind emotions with highs and lows, ultimate highs and ultimate lows. It was disappointing at times, yet encouraging. Online dating taught me a lot about self awareness, self worth, and gave me expectations I didn’t know I had in dating.
Online Dating Success Series Introduction: Are You Ready For Online Dating?
If you clicked on this post, and you’re reading it – you’re probably thinking: “How successful actually was she?” “I don’t believe in this crap, let me see if she made a fool of herself” “People actually need a manual to online dating, are you kidding me?” “I could be interested, with much convincing…” “I’ve given it my all – this may be my last resort”
I’ll be completely honest: I wasn’t successful 100% of the time throughout, but in the end I succeeded. I didn’t believe in online dating either – I wasn’t really proud of it in the beginning, a little embarrassed to tell people – but that changed. And you’re right – I did make a fool of myself, plenty of times. I learned a lot – good and bad. And yes, unfortunately, some people will need a manual to online dating if they want success. I saw far too many along the way, and who now, are doing it all very wrong. Allow me to convince you, to guide you through it, because when you have given it your all – sometimes you’re just looking for that glimmer of hope.
You’re probably wondering – well, then how did you do it? What’s your secret?
The secret is in my method – through my personal experience. And that’s what I am going to share with you. The INs and OUTs – the dating expectations I grew, the self worth I attained, the types of people I steered clear from and those who proved their worth. You will learn the DOs and DON’Ts of setting up your dating profile. Also, I will go into the red flags of other dating profiiles, messaging etiquette and answer the many common pitfalls and questions of online dating.
The key to this process is ease. Online dating won’t be easy, but the ease of knowing you will make the right choices. And in turn, the right choices will find you.
Online Dating Success Series: Are You Ready For Online Dating?
With that, I developed a series. An online dating personal success series. Hold your breath, because it’s not as long as you may think. There are different phases in the series – each one benefiting you as you walk through the process of online dating.
I’ll be real with you. Not sugar coat the truth. There will be some parts that will make your head spin or you may not agree upon. That’s cool, too. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me on my personal experience and method. But it worked for me, and it can possibly work for someone else, too.
This is a great way to take notes on what to do and what not to do, how to make the right choices for you, and what to look out for in the online dating world. And as true as it is, online dating is a completely separate world – in which not everyone is automatically capable of understanding right off the bat.
That’s what this series is here for – to help guide you. To help remind you not only of the decisions that could help you succeed, but also of what you should expect along the way. Good and bad.
Video 1: Introduction: Personal success backstory; are you ready for online dating?
Video 2: Phase I: Online dating expectations and the DOs and DON’Ts to setting up your dating profile
Video 4: Phase III: All of your common online dating questions laid to rest (COMING SOON!)
Are you ready for online dating?
You’re probably wondering… “Is online dating right for me?”
I’ll throw this out there – like anything – you don’t actually know until you try it. Online dating isn’t for everyone, for different reasons. The main thing people will say is, “I just don’t have time.”
Well, you don’t need to give it all of your time. Just like normal dating in the outside world, there should be no pressure. And you can treat online dating the very same way. Will you have to make the little extra effort? Sure, but it doesn’t need to be the sole focal point of your life.
There are questions you need to ask yourself:
- Have you opened up all avenues of the dating world?
- Are you prepared for limitless options?
I go into more questions in my introductory video that you should be asking yourself before taking the plunge in my series. I do highly recommend you take the time to watch my online dating series, as they will benefit you through the process. And whether you come out of it with a whole new perspective, or not – just remember my method worked for me, but maybe not everyone. And that’s OK. But the idea is to possibly attain a new method, to change what isn’t currently working for you and see online dating in a new light.
Disclaimer: series is solely based on my personal experience. Results may vary for every individual.
Video 1: Introduction, personal success backstory; are you ready for online dating?
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