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To get this out in the open, there is a wiiiiiiide spectrum as to what is considered healthy and unhealthy space in relationships. Yet we tend to focus more on too much or too little when it comes to space, not health.

If you fear losing him, here’s why relationships need space

To get this out in the open, there is a wiiiiiiide spectrum as to what is considered healthy and unhealthy space in relationships. Yet we tend to focus more on too much or too little when it comes to space, not health. Lean too far on either end of that spectrum and you risk relationship […]

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Stop expecting YOU from others - sincerely, a recovering people pleaser. There's a slightly nasty, yet logical part of me that thinks we do this because we are constantly told we are imperfectly perfect, and to focus on our positive qualities. So we start looking for that same sense of perfection in others - meaning, we're looking for that good in others to measure up to our own perceived goodness.

Stop expecting YOU from others – sincerely, a recovering people pleaser

Stop expecting YOU from others – sincerely, a recovering people pleaser. There’s a slightly nasty, yet logical part of me that thinks we do this because we are constantly told we are imperfectly perfect, and to focus on our positive qualities. So we start looking for that same sense of perfection in others – meaning,

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These are vows you should not only make but continue to keep. These are vows not only for yourself but for your relationships.

30 Self Love Vows To Make In The New Year

These are vows you should not only make but continue to keep. These are vows not only for yourself but for your relationships. And regardless of how others make it seem, self-love is not selfish. It is not arrogant, greedy, uncompassionate or egotistical. It is, however, threatening to those who lack it and who thrive

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How To Stop Being Defensive [When You Feel Under Attack] | It's instinctive - biological - that when you feel attacked you will either shut down, run away and hide or retaliate to protect yourself. But from a social standpoint - particularly with our close relationships with others - this defense mechanism does more harm (for you and others) than good. Begin the process of healing yourself, learn how to manage your emotions and conserve the energy for what truly matters in life | #selfimprovementtips #defensive #selfhealing | theMRSingLink

How to stop being defensive when you feel under attack

Defensiveness – it’s the gut reaction to defend yourself when you feel someone has said or done something unfairly or negatively to you. When you feel attacked you will either shut down, run away, hide or retaliate to protect yourself. You know all too well what that feels like. The blood is rushing to your face, you start

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And that might be part of the problem - basing gift ideas solely on what the other person asks for. As adults, that isn't always reliable or achievable. So what then? That's when I decided to come up with a gift guide for couples. Since Christmas is second runner-up for being the most romantic time of year, I thought of this being the perfect opportunity to create a guide to bring the romance.

Gift guide for couples – 7 Ways to bring the romance for the Holidays

This post received complimentary product by Kisses 4 Us® in exchange for a gift guide recognition. The Holidays are right around the corner! Um, yesterday was June I thought? And that’s what happens when you blink. Before you know it, you’re trying to remember all the things you came across throughout the year and said

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[Not Just Any] Classic Chocolate Cake With Buttercream Frosting | A rich, classic chocolate cake that will taste like it was made from a bakery | Bakery-style chocolate cake that is entirely homemade | The easiest buttercream frosting recipe that will have you ditching store bought FOR GOOD | #chocolatecake #dessertheaven #holidayrecipe | Cake baking from scratch - NOT boxed | theMRSingLink

Scratch Chocolate Cake With Buttercream Frosting

Seriously, who doesn’t love a good classic? This scratch chocolate cake with buttercream frosting literally takes the cake. Nope, no store-bought boxed cake, here! It’s perfect for that upcoming Holiday feast, special occasion (birthday or anniversary, anyone?) or date night splurge – just simply add cinnamon and nutmeg (as stated in the ingredients list). The

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Since gaslighting is a control tactic through manipulation, it's almost a guarantee you have been gaslit at some point in your life - even thanks to politics, specialists, marketing, corporations, culture and social media. Gaslighting in relationships is no exception either. But while we're pretty hyper-focused on the things in which happen to us, are we REALLY willing to ask ourselves, "Is it me? Am I the problem?" Are YOU the one doing the gaslighting?

4 Signs of gaslighting in relationships – hello, it’s coming from you!

Since gaslighting is a control tactic through manipulation, it’s almost a guarantee you have been gaslit at some point in your life – even thanks to politics, specialists, marketing, corporations, culture and social media. Gaslighting in relationships is no exception either. But while we’re pretty hyper-focused on the things in which happen to us, are

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Why Online Dating Is So Difficult [When It Shouldn't Be] | The things I learned from dating online for over 4 years, and the hard truths I encountered that can make finding love online seem impossible | Online dating advice for the single woman on the verge of giving up - here's what you need to know | #onlinedating #datingadvice | theMRSingLink

Why is online dating so hard in a tech world?

I see this question so often nowadays. It’s funny because when online dating first came about, it was hard then, too. We knew this because people have been having strictly online-based relationships for years, and we know how most of those end up. Yet here we are, where instantaneous, online connections are easily considered the

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