Category: For the Men

  • 11 Cutsy follow-up texts to send after a first date

    It should be important to note that I am addressing both guys and gals here, and that both ought to be comfortable sending follow-ups, especially if you like them. Besides, we really ought to end the fear and negative stigma when it comes to texting following a first date. Look, it’s just not *cool* to…

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  • 9 Boundaries for a stronger marriage

    Oftentimes I think people view boundaries in marriage as freedom limitations, strict laws imposed on one another, or even a form of punishment. I find that telling when, in fact, boundaries – when used properly and lovingly – make a marriage stronger. Now I’ve written several other posts on boundaries, and while I have so…

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  • 4 Simple ways we manage joint finances in marriage

    Before my husband and I got married, we discussed how we would manage the finances. Mutually, we both grew up in joint households when it came to money, therefore it seemed the most natural to take the similar approach. While there are certainly more and others, these are the main ways my husband and I…

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  • How to date with intention in 2025

    It’s 2025 – are you dating with intention? To date with intention is to date with a reason, purpose or end-goal. Typically this means to date with the intent for a relationship or commitment in mind. If you’re not sure whether you’re dating with intention or how to date with intention, you simply need a…

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  • Why is dating so hard for guys? *POV: a woman

    This one’s for the guys. No, no, not the boys – the men. Why do I stress this? Because the boys will believe themselves to be wise in their own eyes, cower from shame and run (or raise a fist) at the hint of correction. If that’s already you four sentences in, I advise you…

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