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Welcome to Phase II of my Online Dating Vlog Success Series. In this series, I go more into depth on messaging etiquette in online dating – what you should and should not say in initial messages and the types of red flags to avoid when pursuing a long-term relationship.
But before I delve into the second series, I want to give you some reading material, for that ladies, that helped guide me through the online dating process. The book is called, “Why Men Love Bitches“. I highly recommend this book on your reading list, as it helped me gain insight on myself, enhanced my strengths as a woman, and gave me the confidence in getting what I wanted out of dating.
This is especially beneficial if you feel that you have had trouble in past relationships, or failing relationships in the past (as I know we all have had). So what better reason not to read this amazing book. So grab it here, and start reading!
Messaging in online dating is a crucial point – it’s the fork in the road whether to pursue someone further, or not. It’s your one and only first impression (other than your profile), as well as your blank canvas in how you approach someone. It’s bizarre for many to recognize that there is a generalized etiquette as to whether you engage or turn people away just from a simple message. And I go into example of that, and how to avoid having your message be ignored.
You will learn about the most common messaging deal breakers – through my research on groups and forums – that have people turning their backs, and are known as threats against having a successful online dating relationship.
Online Dating: Messaging Etiquette And Red Flags
If you haven’t already, be sure to catch up on the Introductory Phase and Phase I of the series – otherwise you might be completely lost in the process.
The Introductory Phase simply goes into my back story, personal experience and finding out whether online dating is the right choice for you.
Phase I delves deeper into the online dating scene – such as personal dating expectations, choosing your appropriate dating site and setting up your profile.
Online Dating Messaging Etiquette
What you will learn:
- My personal deal breakers
- Most common messaging deal breakers in the online dating world
- The types of messages to avoid and what to avoid saying in your messages to others
- How to turn your initial message from OK, to GOOD into BETTER (through my vlog exercise)
Materials from the phase:
- Why Men Love Bitches (highly recommend!) $13 on Amazon