relationship advice

  • When Finding A Good Guy Is Scarier Than Your Toxic Relationships

    When Finding A Good Guy Is Scarier Than Your Toxic Relationships

    Does it even make sense?? Being more fearful of finding a good guy that doesn’t come with all the drama-filled, emotionally exhausting, roller coaster ride of your previous toxic relationships? Listen, that very fear is valid. But breathe easy when I say this transition through healing will pass. It won’t be easy at first, it’ll…

  • 5 Ways you need to check in with your partner

    5 Ways you need to check in with your partner

    …regardless if you believe your relationship is thriving. See, because that’s the crazy, crazy part – while all is seemingly perfect on your end, the fact is that may not always be the case for your partner. Couples are ingrained with the notion that they are supposed to be able to tell one another anything…

  • If you fear losing him, here’s why relationships need space

    If you fear losing him, here’s why relationships need space

    To get this out in the open, there is a wiiiiiiide spectrum as to what is considered healthy and unhealthy space in relationships. Yet we tend to focus more on too much or too little when it comes to space, not health. Lean too far on either end of that spectrum and you risk relationship…

  • If Communication Is Hard, Connect With Your Spouse First

    If Communication Is Hard, Connect With Your Spouse First

    Crazy thought, right? It took me a while to grasp this understanding, but if you think about it it actually does make the most sense. Everywhere you read gives you bullet points on how to improve communication with your partner (I, too, am guilty – you can read that post here), but the way we…

  • Why is online dating so hard in a tech world?

    Why is online dating so hard in a tech world?

    I see this question so often nowadays. It’s funny because when online dating first came about, it was hard then, too. We knew this because people have been having strictly online-based relationships for years, and we know how most of those end up. Yet here we are, where instantaneous, online connections are easily considered the…