dear men

This is for the men out there who desire headship status and to be (what we like to call) a true leader in marriage. I know I'm about to step on many toes, as I've likely done from the title of this post, but if your innate drive is to lead, provide and protect then you'll have to reframe your understanding of what headship or leadership actually means.

Dear men, to be a true leader in marriage you must become a servant

This is for the men out there who desire headship status and to be (what we like to call) a true leader in marriage. I know I’m about to step on many toes, as I’ve likely done from the title of this post, but if your innate drive is to lead, provide and protect then […]

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I notice this quite a bit - men who genuinely believe their relationship is *improving* when actually it's the opposite. She's moved on, like done-zo - checked out of the relationship. I don't totally understand men's logic on this one (granted, women share this, too, just *different*) but I imagine it's simply because the arguing, bickering and fighting has either dwindled or come to a screeching halt...and not by the authentic efforts for improvement.

Dear men, the relationship isn’t improving – she’s moved on

I notice this quite a bit – men who genuinely believe their relationship is *improving* when actually it’s the opposite. She’s moved on, like done-zo – checked out of the relationship. I don’t totally understand men’s logic on this one (granted, women share this, too, just *different*) but I imagine it’s simply because the arguing,

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