dating advice

  • If he likes you his texting habits will prove it

    If he likes you his texting habits will prove it

    With computer programming as a second language to me, I like to code and decode things, because everything has a meaning and a purpose. For all of us, texting has also become another language. And I hate to admit that it has value in our daily lives, because it does, but texting has also proven…

  • Money and dating isn’t taboo – How to talk about money

    Money and dating isn’t taboo – How to talk about money

    Money and relationships are often depicted to be like oil and water – they don’t mix. Now it’s considered taboo in both the dating world and relationships. *If you’re in a committed relationship, you can head over to my post on How to Talk About Money in Relationships. The real problem is dating couples fail…

  • First date red flags to STOP sweeping under the rug

    First date red flags to STOP sweeping under the rug

    Red flags should not be ignored on a first date This may get me in trouble, I don’t care, but I’m not into “following my heart”. The heart is deceptive, delusional, depraved and often fleeting. Following my heart has led me to chaos and destruction. Following my heart made me blind to dating red flags…

  • Boundaries after a breakup – what they are and why you need them

    Boundaries after a breakup – what they are and why you need them

    10+ Examples of setting boundaries after a breakup Breakups are hard. Setting and honoring boundaries after a breakup can be even harder. The most crucial part about heartache is the scared, lost, and deeply wounded inner child that is screaming out for help – to be seen, heard, and healed. And for many following a…

  • Gifting when you’re dating someone new – is it too soon?

    Gifting when you’re dating someone new – is it too soon?

    The Holidays may be quite different this year (thanks, Corona), but that doesn’t mean you can’t share Holiday cheer with those you love – er, even the new people that enter your life. So if you’re seeing someone new this Holiday season, there’s still more than enough reasons to make it count without going over-the-top.…