dating advice

  • He says he’s not interested but keeps texting you

    He says he’s not interested but keeps texting you

    So he claims he’s not interested but keeps texting you anyway? What gives? Unfortunately, you have to be willing to ask yourself one simple question: “Do you truly want an answer, or are you only looking for what you want to hear?” Because if this wishy-washy behavior leaves you with more questions than certainty, I’m…

  • Has Hookup Culture replaced Dating Culture?

    Has Hookup Culture replaced Dating Culture?

    Dating today – has it been replaced, or destroyed, by Hookup Culture? It seems as if dating is now the black sheep, the outcast, and plagued to the point of unrecognition. It is is also seemingly undesirable and, to many, impossible. Personally I think Hookup Culture is much to blame. Sure, not everyone bows down…

  • 7 Subtle ways relationship trust can be broken or lost

    7 Subtle ways relationship trust can be broken or lost

    We all know by now that trust is the easiest to lose, and the hardest to regain. And in relationships trust is easily and most obviously broken by things like deceit (lying, dishonesty, secrecy) and infidelity (cheating, disloyalty), but what about the not-so -obvious? The subtle ways trust can be lost or broken in relationships…

  • Dear men, here’s why she doesn’t WANT to have sex

    Dear men, here’s why she doesn’t WANT to have sex

    Dear men, the literal fact is you keep missing the point. Notice, in caps, that I said want. This isn’t a matter of why she won’t; she won’t have sex with you, say, because she is waiting until marriage. This post extends to the bracket [of men] [with women] who fail to recognize the spectrum…

  • Are you really in love? Because these are not it.

    Are you really in love? Because these are not it.

    Is it safe to say we tend to fall in love, or love someone, for the wrong reasons? Part of me thinks we know it, too – yee-ouch. And then we’re disappointed when Love fails us because we placed our faith in the most unpredictable, unstable aspects of what we believed to be Love. Yeah,…