Relationships

  • Do you want closure or redemption in a relationship?

    Do you want closure or redemption in a relationship?

    Ask yourself the hard, pivotal post-breakup question when it comes to relationships: what does closure mean to me? And really, be frank, don’t hold back. Because that’s what this post is about – figuring out what it can actually mean to want closure, and maybe even closure you didn’t get. The hard truth is, on…

  • Are you really in love? Because these are not it.

    Are you really in love? Because these are not it.

    Is it safe to say we tend to fall in love, or love someone, for the wrong reasons? Part of me thinks we know it, too – yee-ouch. And then we’re disappointed when Love fails us because we placed our faith in the most unpredictable, unstable aspects of what we believed to be Love. Yeah,…

  • He wants you back now that you’ve moved on

    He wants you back now that you’ve moved on

    You see a long-awaited grand opportunity filling you with butterflies – you’ve been wishing for him to make a big move or change of heart. Or maybe you’ve finally moved on, and suddenly your EX starts creeping back into your life. Orrrr you’re now in a tug-of-war with your heartstrings – the previous guy is…

  • 5 Ways social media can destroy relationships

    5 Ways social media can destroy relationships

    I’m lifting the veil for some of ya’ll when I say social media can – it’s been proven it HAS – absolutely wreak havoc (and even destroy) your relationship. And I mean this *gently* because many of you are out there performing, fantasizing, idolizing, and acting day in and day out in your virtual world…

  • 5 Signs he’s not being honest with you

    5 Signs he’s not being honest with you

    There are subtle signs and clear signs that the guy you’re dating isn’t being totally honest or upfront with you – on the extreme end, he may even be a compulsive liar. Sometimes these signs aren’t flat-out noticeable, especially when you’re not looking for them. And if these signs go unresolved, you could be headed…