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  • 10 Things can happen when you stop texting your ex

    10 Things can happen when you stop texting your ex

    If you can’t stop texting your ex, here are 10 things that could change if you did Seriously, what’s the worst thing that could happen if you stopped texting your ex right now? Then what’s the best thing that could happen if you were to stop texting your ex? These are two very important questions…

  • 3 Meaningful, authentic ways to rebuild trust in a relationship

    3 Meaningful, authentic ways to rebuild trust in a relationship

    How to rebuild trust when it’s been broken To rebuild trust in a relationship, regardless of who did wrong, is a two-way street. We know that, right? It’s a teeter-tottering of give and receive. Trust can only be rebuilt if the bids for trust are not just modeled but received. Unfortunately, how often do we…

  • Are opposite sex friendships in marriage a threat?

    Are opposite sex friendships in marriage a threat?

    Marriage, friendships, boundaries and emotional infidelity – the important questions to ask I think the better question to ask is when, because many are quick to answer the title of this post with a big, fat, hard NO or YES. I think the answer is they can be, but what we really should be asking…

  • 11 Cutsy follow-up texts to send after a first date

    11 Cutsy follow-up texts to send after a first date

    It should be important to note that I am addressing both guys and gals here, and that both ought to be comfortable sending follow-ups, especially if you like them. Besides, we really ought to end the fear and negative stigma when it comes to texting following a first date. Look, it’s just not *cool* to…

  • 9 Boundaries for a stronger marriage

    9 Boundaries for a stronger marriage

    Oftentimes I think people view boundaries in marriage as freedom limitations, strict laws imposed on one another, or even a form of punishment. I find that telling when, in fact, boundaries – when used properly and lovingly – make a marriage stronger. Now I’ve written several other posts on boundaries, and while I have so…