Dating

  • When he says he’s not interested, but his behavior says otherwise

    When he says he’s not interested, but his behavior says otherwise

    I see this posed in a question quite often. “He says he’s not into me, but he…[does or says this thing that doesn’t align with that]. So, what does this mean now?” Have you experienced this – when he says he’s not interested yet his behavior says otherwise? I think it’s important, more important, rather…

  • What dating to marry does NOT mean

    What dating to marry does NOT mean

    Dating for marriage – what it does not mean I thought about writing a post about what dating to marry means in dating culture, but then I thought it would be MUCH easier to explain what it does not mean. Let’s dive in. Dating for marriage or dating to marry is a bit newer language…

  • Once a cheater always a cheater?

    Once a cheater always a cheater?

    If they cheated, are they destined to repeat? If you asked me in my 20s, or even within the last 5 years, I would say absolutely, “Once a cheater always a cheater.” I also used to believe cheating was unforgivable and unredeemable (I’ve even stated this in older posts from 5+ years ago). Has that…

  • 11 Cutsy follow-up texts to send after a first date

    11 Cutsy follow-up texts to send after a first date

    It should be important to note that I am addressing both guys and gals here, and that both ought to be comfortable sending follow-ups, especially if you like them. Besides, we really ought to end the fear and negative stigma when it comes to texting following a first date. Look, it’s just not *cool* to…

  • 15+ Inexpensive but totally cool date ideas for young adult couples

    15+ Inexpensive but totally cool date ideas for young adult couples

    For the young adults over the age of 18 but not legally 21, this post is for you. For the parents who are looking for some fresh, fun, and totally cool date idea activities for their adolescent teens (that aren’t crazy expensive) – this post is also for you. Young adult couples deserve cool, fun…