We all know by now that trust is the easiest to lose, and the hardest to regain. And in relationships trust is easily and most obviously broken by things like deceit (lying, dishonesty, secrecy) and infidelity (cheating, disloyalty), but what about the not-so -obvious? The subtle ways trust can be lost or broken in relationships […]
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Dear men, the literal fact is you keep missing the point. Notice, in caps, that I said want. This isn’t a matter of why she won’t; she won’t have sex with you, say, because she is waiting until marriage. The title of this post also does not take into account the basic, most obvious reason,
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Oope, did I stutter? Work spouses are for singles. And there’s no changing my mind on this one. Leave this glamorized – and, nowadays, normalized – workplace trend to the REAL single folks. Otherwise, yeahHH, having a work spouse is simply an excuse to cheat. You do realize emotional affairs are a legitimate thing, right?
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I could say the guy should pay. I could also say the woman should offer, or whoever does the asking out should take responsibility. But damn is it ever NOT that simple. Why? Because as relationship equality would have it, it’s equally both parties’ duty to put in equal effort (including splitting the bill). So
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Did you ever think you would find yourself at that point? Being more fearful for landing a decent guy that doesn’t come with all the drama-filled, emotionally exhausting, roller coaster ride of your previous toxic relationships? Listen, that very fear is valid. But breathe easy when I say this transition through healing will pass. It
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Forgiving someone who hurt you and trusting them again isn’t easy. Not impossible but not effortless, either. If it were impossible, that can indicate how little importance that person is to you. Though its still incredibly painful when having to bear the question of how to forgive your partner who hurt you, as well as
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Since break is half of the word “breakup“, the term is essentially a breaking point. Though most consider a break to be the last ditch effort, like a relationship-reset. Either way, we’ve distorted what a break (in relationships) means in its entirety. I call it a finality, while many are treating it like a hall pass.
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In part [one] of this post, I talked about HOW transparency creates thriving relationships. If you didn’t get the chance to read it, you should in order to understand what transparency means, and why it is so important in our relationships, and in marriage. Part [two] goes into the ways you can be more transparent
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