Does it even make sense?? Being more fearful of finding a good guy that doesn’t come with all the drama-filled, emotionally exhausting, roller coaster ride of your previous toxic relationships? Listen, that very fear is valid. But breathe easy when I say this transition through healing will pass. It won’t be easy at first, it’ll […]
When Finding A Good Guy Is Scarier Than Your Toxic Relationships Read More »
…regardless if you believe your relationship is thriving. See, because that’s the crazy, crazy part – while all is seemingly perfect on your end, the fact is that may not always be the case for your partner. Couples are ingrained with the notion that they are supposed to be able to tell one another anything
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To get this out in the open, there is a wiiiiiiide spectrum as to what is considered healthy and unhealthy space in relationships. Yet we tend to focus more on too much or too little when it comes to space, not health. Lean too far on either end of that spectrum and you risk relationship
If you fear losing him, here’s why relationships need space Read More »
I believe in dating with intention. Because what is the point in getting to know someone you don’t plan on having stick around? A first date is also the initial opportunity to uncover any red flags, or potential ones. This means making the most out of that first date – asking the right questions and
It’s 2022: What to talk about on a first date – no excuses Read More »
Forgiving someone who hurt you and trusting them again isn’t easy. Not impossible but not effortless, either. If it were impossible, that can indicate how little importance that person is to you. Though its still incredibly painful when having to bear the question of how to forgive your partner who hurt you, as well as
How to forgive your partner who hurt you, and trust them again Read More »
Crazy thought, right? It took me a while to grasp this understanding, but if you think about it it actually does make the most sense. Everywhere you read gives you bullet points on how to improve communication with your partner (I, too, am guilty – you can read that post here), but the way we
If Communication Is Hard, Connect With Your Spouse First Read More »
I see this question so often nowadays. It’s funny because when online dating first came about, it was hard then, too. We knew this, because people have been having strictly online-based relationships for years, and we know how most of those end up. Yet here we are. where instantaneous, online connections are easily considered the
Online dating is the new normal, then why is it so hard? Read More »
I’ve always been the kind of person who tends to see both sides to everything. The good, bad and even the ugly. I overthink, a lot. Catch me on a topic I love…and it will have me going off on a tangent. That’s probably why I really, REALLY wanted to have a blog that focuses on
If It’s True Love, It Will Never Make You Feel These Ways.. Read More »
It’s simple: you can’t allow inevitable imperfections to ruin your shot at a decent, meaningful relationship. Especially those petty and irrational arguments. OK – easier said than done. When I say petty, I’m talking about the things that shouldn’t really become a problem or create more problems in the first place. When all is said
10 Petty Arguments You’ll Have In Every Relationship Read More »
Thanksgiving and Christmas are the two major Holidays for couples and new relationships where it may seem like you’re stepping on one another’s toes. Whether you celebrate the Holidays or not, it’s important to consider Holiday expectations in your relationship. In a previous post, I talked about how the Holidays can make or break new
This is why it’s important to talk about Holiday traditions as a couple Read More »