Dear men, the literal fact is you keep missing the point. Notice, in caps, that I said want. This isn’t a matter of why she won’t; she won’t have sex with you, say, because she is waiting until marriage. The title of this post also does not take into account the basic, most obvious reason, […]
Dear men, here’s why she doesn’t WANT to have sex Read More »
Is it safe to say we tend to fall in love, or love someone, for the wrong reasons? Part of me thinks we know it, too – yee-ouch. And then we’re disappointed when Love fails us because we placed our faith in the most unpredictable, unstable aspects of what we believed to be Love. Yeah,
Are you really in love? Because these are not it. Read More »
Sometimes I feel like the meaning of ‘respect’ gets watered down, you know? We pick and choose what suits our definition best (or what resonates most). Like, respect is how we treat others. Or, respect is having high regard or admiration for someone. Or, respect is simply human decency, no matter what. And in regards
When a man respects you, he WANTS you to know.. Read More »
LBR, online dating is not getting any easier. I met my [now] husband online back in 2012, and here are my 50+ online dating success secrets. Okaaaayyy, I realize that is basically a different era now, and a lot has changed since then, but I am confident that my slew of advice still applies to today.
My 50+ online dating success SECRETS Read More »
With computer programming as a second language to me, I like to code and decode things, because everything has a meaning and a purpose. For all of us, texting has also become another language. And I hate to admit that it has value in our daily lives, because it does, but texting has also proven
9 Texting habits of the guy that legit likes you Read More »
This may get me in trouble, I don’t care, but I’m not into “following my heart”. The heart is deceptive, so I follow God. Because through God comes Peace, while my heart desired chaos (in the name of Love and “passion”) which often led me along the path of blind ignorance. So when it comes
First date red flags to STOP sweeping under the rug Read More »
Breakups are hard. Setting and honoring boundaries post breakup can be even harder. The most crucial part about heartache many fail to see is the scared, lost, and deeply wounded inner child that is screaming out for help – to be seen, heard, and healed…by you. And for many following a breakup, there is a
Boundaries after a breakup – what are they and why you need them Read More »
The Holidays may be quite different this year (thanks, Corona), but that doesn’t mean you can’t share Holiday cheer with those you love – er, even the new people that enter your life. So if you’re seeing someone new this Holiday season, there’s still more than enough reasons to make it count without going over-the-top.
Gifting when you’re dating someone new – is it too soon? Read More »
It’s not much of a secret – you learn a lot about your partner when you travel together for the first time. In fact, traveling as a couple tests your relationship. Some say the result is like fast-forwarding your relationship 10 years. Traveling together really does test the relationship in many ways. BUT, do this
7 Ways traveling as a couple will test your relationship Read More »
I could say the guy should pay. I could also say the woman should offer, or whoever does the asking out should take responsibility. But damn is it ever NOT that simple. Why? Because as relationship equality would have it, it’s equally both parties’ duty to put in equal effort (including splitting the bill). So
Who should pay for a date? The simple answer. Read More »