Love

Or, for those who may need better clarity, here's to detecting the guy who's only in it for the sex. But more importantly, the ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count. Still, sometimes it's much easier to find Waldo in villain form first, so that's the focus here. This post may not entirely rub you the right way, buuuuut that's kind of the point because where there's discomfort in our lives is something needing to surface.

3 Ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count (sex)

Or, for those who may need better clarity, here’s to detecting the guy who’s only in it for the sex. But more importantly, the ways to find a man after your heart, not a body count. Still, sometimes it’s much easier to find Waldo in villain form first, so that’s the focus here. This post […]

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It's no surprise - we're already quick to label clinginess by its select and stereotypical qualities. But what are some of the brushed-under-the-rug signs of a clingy relationship? You know, the soft spots we're not really ready to touch on, or admit.

8 Signs of a clingy relationship

It’s no surprise – we’re already quick to label clinginess by its select and stereotypical qualities. But what are some of the brushed-under-the-rug signs of a clingy relationship? You know, the soft spots we’re not really ready to touch on, or admit. This isn’t talked about as much, but the damaging effects – IMO –

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I'm not afraid to admit it - as a married woman, relationship-care and self-care are congruently interconnected. Relationship-care is also self-care, yet why is this statement so combative? That's a personal question to ask and unpack yourself. Putting effort into and towards my marriage ultimately makes me *feel good*, as it should! The same way working out is part of your self-care routine - it's work and it's effort, so you may not always feel inclined to doing it, but in the end it's worth it.

Relationship-care is also self-care [9 examples]

I’m not afraid to admit it – as a married woman, relationship-care and self-care are congruently interconnected. Relationship-care is also self-care, yet why is this statement so combative? That’s a personal question to ask and unpack yourself. Putting effort into and towards my marriage ultimately makes me *feel good*, as it should! The same way

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If you're looking for Love, dating can be hard, especially in a very digital-focused, online-based world. From simply meeting people to actually getting to know them has changed, and not necessarily to a better alternative. Maybe getting a date isn't the problem - that's why I came up with five important, self-reflective questions to ask yourself after a first date.

5 Questions to ask yourself after a first date if you’re looking for Love

If you’re looking for Love, dating can be hard, especially in a very digital-focused, online-based world. From simply meeting people to actually getting to know them has changed, and not necessarily to a better alternative. Maybe getting a date isn’t the problem – that’s why I came up with five important, self-reflective questions to ask

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It's becoming almost dreadfully and unbearably easy to resort to the ole' dinner date these days. Okayyyy, I know, we shouldn't really complain that much, and for the average couple with many years under their belt that dinner may actually be their escape from reality and just what they need to focus on nothing but each other. If that's you and dinner dates are your jam, own it, baby!

15+ DAY DATE ideas that aren’t just *dinner*

It’s becoming almost dreadfully and unbearably easy to resort to the ole’ dinner date these days. Okayyyy, I know, we shouldn’t really complain that much, and for the average couple with many years under their belt that dinner may actually be their escape from reality and just what they need to focus on nothing but

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And I'm talking about Love in truth, not this version of Love from culture, or "man" (society). Because the "Love" that society has curated and pushed is not only destructive but normalized. Part of me almost wants to say that we aren't actually equipped to handle what real Love means because subsequently...we'd crumble to dust.

8 Lies about Love society has made you to believe

Humanity’s definition of Love is always ever evolving and changing, so what are some lies society has made you believe about Love? And I’m talking about Love in truth, not this version of Love from culture, or “man” (society). Because the “Love” that society has curated and pushed is not only destructive but normalized. Part

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Every relationship should be built on the foundation of trust, duh, as are couples each responsible for honoring and upholding that trust. Where you define the basis of trust in your relationship is entirely between you and your partner. So if you and your partner are totally cool keeping your mula separate (as "private" information) from one another, and this not be a detriment to relationship trust, then cool beans. Yet being in a relationship, we have to be willing to find that middle, common ground between transparency and trust. Because, at the end of the day, a lack of transparency is a lack of trust.

7 Subtle ways relationship trust can be broken or lost

We all know by now that trust is the easiest to lose, and the hardest to regain. And in relationships trust is easily and most obviously broken by things like deceit (lying, dishonesty, secrecy) and infidelity (cheating, disloyalty), but what about the not-so -obvious? The subtle ways trust can be lost or broken in relationships

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