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Online Dating

  • First date red flags to STOP sweeping under the rug

    First date red flags to STOP sweeping under the rug

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    theMRSingLink

    Red flags should not be ignored on a first date. This may get me in trouble, I don’t care, but I’m not into “following my heart”. The heart is deceptive, delusional, depraved and often fleeting. Following my heart has led me to chaos and destruction. Following my heart made me blind to dating red flags…

  • We need to stop romanticizing these dating red flags

    We need to stop romanticizing these dating red flags

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    theMRSingLink

    We need to STOP romanticizing dating red flags. Because…”What you allow is what will continue,”, “The treatment we tolerate from others is a reflection of how we treat ourselves,”, and “Your worth is not determined by self-neglect.” Just a little dating food for thought there, since I am speaking from the very position where I,…

  • Who should pay for a date? The simple answer.

    Who should pay for a date? The simple answer.

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    theMRSingLink

    I could say the guy should pay. I could also say the woman should offer, or whoever does the asking out should take responsibility. But damn is it ever NOT that simple. Why? Because as relationship equality would have it, it’s equally both parties’ duty to put in equal effort (including splitting the bill). So…

  • How the pandemic impacts dating app connections – [3] Online dating dangers

    How the pandemic impacts dating app connections – [3] Online dating dangers

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    theMRSingLink

    [Written in 2020] Surprisingly enough, dating has become a legitimate struggle right now as we face this uncertain and indefinite lockdown. But I’ll bet more and more singles are logging on and signing up for dating sites. [Update in 2024] We’re more than 4 years post pandemic, and the aftereffects are being felt everywhere –…

  • This is every SUCCESSFUL Online Dating Profile [As Of 2020]

    This is every SUCCESSFUL Online Dating Profile [As Of 2020]

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    theMRSingLink

    I began dating online in, oof, 2009. I remember having to fill out a 100+ questionnaire and a dating profile that resembled a resume template. I have no doubt things are different since then, likely in not-so-good ways. Some dating apps may not even require you to fill out a full-on profile anymore (sad, sad,…