Essentially, you want to break up the cake into crumbs. This gets messy - beware - so I found it easier to do in the mixer (sorry, you'll be washing that bad boy a good 3 times for this recipe). Break up the cake into chunks and place in your mixer, processor OR a large bowl if doing by hand.
Allow mixer to break up the cake until there are no large clumps - start at low speed at first (I made the mistake of being overzealous and cake went flying everywhere).
Add in your icing to the bowl. Again, if the icing is too runny, just use half or 3/4 the amount. Otherwise, use the full amount from the listed ingredients. If you are using store bought icing, start with adding 1 cup at a time - keep adding if you need more, but read on about consistency before adding additional amounts.
CAKE-POP CONSISTENCY: this is key, and it comes quick. You don't want the cake to be "wet" or "gooey", you want a very "dough-like" consistency (more on the dry side). This is super tricky, and makes or breaks your "cake-pop" for this recipe. You literally can't turn back if your cake is too soggy and wet.
To avoid this, add in your icing in slow increments. Keep testing the mixture by simply molding a small ball into your hand. The ball should be somewhat shiny on the outside, easy to mold and hold together in your hand without crumbling apart.
If you are not getting the desired consistency, you will need to add more icing. *TIP: melted butter can also be a splint if this occurs and you have no more icing (1-2 tbsp at a time).
Once you've perfected your cake-pop, line a 13x9 baking pan with wax paper. Nothing fancy - this just makes it easier for you to take the bars in and out of the pan to cut. So make sure you give yourself extra paper on the sides.
Using your hands or something flat, evenly mold the cake onto the bottom of the pan (over the wax paper).
Then place in the fridge for the time being while the fudge is made (see next step).