If your partner has an anxious attachment style, what you say matters, and there are things you can say that are helpful instead of hurtful. Those who actually read this post are most likely to have an anxious attachment style (not to be confused with the fearful avoidant attachment). Because, alas, I would bet it’s […]
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Dear men, the literal fact is you keep missing the point. Notice, in caps, that I said want. This isn’t a matter of why she won’t; she won’t have sex with you, say, because she is waiting until marriage. This post extends to the bracket [of men] [with women] who fail to recognize the spectrum
Dear men, here’s why she doesn’t WANT to have sex Read More »
As if it wasn’t like nails on a chalkboard already, meeting new people and making friends are difficult as well. But above all, introverts hate small talk. Granted, COVID (er, rather, the whole social distancing) brought us introverts a bit of relief, but this in no way means anything has changed at the forefront of
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Relationships are work. I hear this time and time again, and while a part of me agrees, there’s a lot of context in that statement that can leave a bad taste in the mouth. In every sense, relationships ARE work – otherwise, they wouldn’t mean much. The same way I can say, “Your job is
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Besides the usual ‘How was your day?’ in the mix of your conversational routine with your spouse, are you making a point to connect with your spouse every day? Hopefully, ‘How was your day?’, is the bare minimum. It’s not that the mundane questions aren’t thoughtful and connection-focused, but you know who else likely asks
Can’t do date night out? If you can’t leave the house, there are still plenty of fun activities for couples that can still keep you connected. Let’s be real, there’s going to come a time when you’re in desperate need of things to do when you’re confined to home or indoors with your partner. For
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I’d be lying if I said I have never felt disconnected from my husband. In fact, I realized it’s often because I am disconnected from myself – *oof*. And the older I get the more I value an emotional and intellectual connection in my marriage. Point blank: it’s not uncommon to feel disconnected from your
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