adult life

  • Girlies, getting your life together can ALSO mean..

    Girlies, getting your life together can ALSO mean..

    To all my girlies, besties, ladies out there – if you’re on the “getting my life together” train, I want you to remember something! This looks different for everybody, and a lot of it depends on whether you’re following what’s mainstream. In a world full of influencers, getting your life together tends to focus heavily…

  • How to make the most of your 20s with your friends

    How to make the most of your 20s with your friends

    Assuming you are reading this – obviously – in your 20s, but more importantly, this [hopefully] being the time in your life when your friends are…well…life. Although this is more of an unconventional approach, I believe this is the time to make the most of your 20s *with your bestie(s)*. You and your crew are…

  • This is why introverts hate small talk

    This is why introverts hate small talk

    As if it wasn’t like nails on a chalkboard already, meeting new people and making friends are difficult as well. But above all, introverts hate small talk. Granted, COVID (er, rather, the whole social distancing) brought us introverts a bit of relief, but this in no way means anything has changed at the forefront of…

  • As an adult I have few friends (what I’m learning)

    As an adult I have few friends (what I’m learning)

    I’m a 30-something year old adult now, and I have few friends. If I’ve learned anything at this point is that less is more, and I’ve never been happier. Allow me to explain in simpler terms: quality over quantity. There was certainly a time in my life when I viewed having friends as a social…

  • This is how you know you they are a true friend

    This is how you know you they are a true friend

    What is a real friend and what does this mean to you? How would you describe a true friend? If you spent enough time thinking about it, there’s likely a fairly long list. Frankly, if you asked me 15+ years ago, my list would be 10x as long, including things like shared interests, finishing each…