Too often a label gets slapped on someone simply because we’re easily triggered and offended. The term ghosting is no different. When, actually, they’re not ghosting you at all. In reality there’s a very real internal issue surfacing. Oope. I realize I am stepping on hot coals just from this post and that even the […]
Actually, they’re not ghosting you and here’s why Read More »
Oope, did I stutter? Work spouses are for singles. And there’s no changing my mind on this one. Leave this glamorized – and, nowadays, normalized – workplace trend to the REAL single folks. Otherwise, yeahHH, having a work spouse is simply an excuse to cheat. You do realize emotional affairs are a legitimate thing, right?
It’s simple: having a work spouse is an excuse to cheat Read More »
Welcome to your laundry list of boundaries with in laws that you and your partner should have [need]. Family boundaries apply whether you are married or not, because your personal and relationship boundaries are still important. Let’s not forget that. Setting boundaries does not mean you are abandoning or betraying your family loyalty by simply
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Notice how easy it is to find content that is always circling red flags in relationships? Now I’m not saying they’re not important to watch out for, but if you’re nose-deep in seeing the bad you might be missing or looking over the good right in front of you! Often times the red flags we
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What having a “type” actually means and where it stems from, why your “type” may be more “restricting” than helpful, and how to evolve from dating strictly within your “type” – these are questions you will find answers to within this post. So if your dating “type” has failed you or always seems to bring
If you haven’t found Love from your dating “type”, read this Read More »
If the title of this post brought you this far, you were likely thinking: A. “Um, duh, yeah! Let me see if there’s anything new I can take away from this.“, B. “Hm, interesting, this is new to me – I need to know more!“ or C. “Uh, why should I “fix” something that isn’t
Better your relationship, whether you need to or not Read More »
This may get me in trouble, I don’t care, but I’m not into “following my heart”. The heart is deceptive because it desires chaos (in the name of man’s version of Love and what we deem as “passion”), which often led me along the path of blind ignorance and self-destruction. Woo-wee. So when it comes
First date red flags to STOP sweeping under the rug Read More »
Did you know you form an attachment style early in childhood? In fact, there are multiple forms of attachment (healthy and unhealthy), but that’s not where I’m going with this post. And while attachment and Love are fairly interconnected (especially in relationships today), they are actually distinctly different and often confused. THAT’S what I want
Love vs. Attachment in relationships – what you need to know Read More »
Breakups are hard. Setting and honoring boundaries post breakup can be even harder. The most crucial part about heartache many fail to see is the scared, lost, and deeply wounded inner child that is screaming out for help – to be seen, heard, and healed. And for many following a breakup, there is a continuation
Boundaries after a breakup – what are they and why you need them Read More »
We need to STOP romanticizing dating red flags. Because…”What you allow is what will continue,”, “The treatment we tolerate from others is a reflection of how we treat ourselves,”, and “Your worth is not determined by self-neglect.” Just a little dating food for thought there, since I am speaking from the very position where I,
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