Category: Relationships

  • Who should pay for a date? The simple answer.

    Who should pay for a date? The simple answer.

    I could say the guy should pay. I could also say the woman should offer, or whoever does the asking out should take responsibility. But damn is it ever NOT that simple. Why? Because as relationship equality would have it, it’s equally both parties’ duty to put in equal effort (including splitting the bill). So…

  • Your relationship needs social media boundaries more than ever

    Your relationship needs social media boundaries more than ever

    People care more about protecting their socials and devices, as well as defending their online identity, reputation and digital world than their relationship. And it shows. Your significant other (SO) deserves respect on and off social media AND your devices. Why is this bold statement so triggering today? Ask yourself, honestly, “Who gets your attention…

  • When Finding A Good Guy Is Scarier Than Your Toxic Relationships

    When Finding A Good Guy Is Scarier Than Your Toxic Relationships

    Does it even make sense?? Being more fearful of finding a good guy that doesn’t come with all the drama-filled, emotionally exhausting, roller coaster ride of your previous toxic relationships? Listen, that very fear is valid. But breathe easy when I say this transition through healing will pass. It won’t be easy at first, it’ll…

  • An Open Letter To My Teenage Self About Love + Boys

    An Open Letter To My Teenage Self About Love + Boys

    Hello to the innocent, closet-weird, shy girl of the early 2000s. You’re 30 now, and I have yet to actually take the time to let you in on my secrets on Love and teenage boys as you enter that magical phase of your life. You’ll probably roll your eyes at me (your future husband LOVES…

  • 5 Ways you need to check in with your partner

    5 Ways you need to check in with your partner

    …regardless if you believe your relationship is thriving. See, because that’s the crazy, crazy part – while all is seemingly perfect on your end, the fact is that may not always be the case for your partner. Couples are ingrained with the notion that they are supposed to be able to tell one another anything…