Or, rather…gently and sincerely. Regardless, severing the cord and letting someone down with the uncomfortable “truth” won’t always be [is rarely] a cakewalk. TBH, if you’re not prepared to face rejection or to possibly “hurt their feelings”, seriously, don’t date. It really is that simple. And the lesson here is how to let someone down […]
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Love makes us do crazy things. This is true. Some for the better and some not. We forget that Love is intentional and not always impulsive. You may frequently hear through the grapevine of love advice to simply go with the flow and let Love happen. And sure, you should, but hearing that doesn’t mean
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To my fellow married peeps out there, this is the tea – an underrated practice you should be implementing if you want your spouse to feel loved every single day. And, obviously, if you’re not married and in a committed relationship…yes, this applies to you as well. This one slips easily, and a lot –
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Relationships are work. I hear this time and time again, and while a part of me agrees, there’s a lot of context in that statement that can leave a bad taste in the mouth. In every sense, relationships ARE work – otherwise, they wouldn’t mean much. The same way I can say, “Your job is
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You’ve made it here because you, 1. find the Holidays to be stressful and chaotic (particularly when it comes to meeting the demands of pleasing those around you) or 2. struggle with the shame and guilt of setting Holiday boundaries (with family and loved ones) in order to avoid or eliminate that stress and chaos
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People too often forget that communicating your dating boundaries is about what you want and don’t want.; setting boundaries with others is about honoring what you need, not driving or pushing people away. Otherwise, how does someone know they are stepping on your toes if you aren’t communicating that to them? Throw in the fact
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Here we go, Lovely – yes, we’re going there. We’ll go there together because it can be scary to admit when the most stable relationships in your life seem dull, lifeless, unappealing and just “meh“. It’s time to wake up, because healthy relationships are not boring – that’s called Peace. And you can’t really blame
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With computer programming as a second language to me, I like to code and decode things, because everything has a meaning and a purpose. For all of us, texting has also become another language. And I hate to admit that it has value in our daily lives, because it does, but texting has also proven
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Money and relationships are often depicted to be like oil and water – they don’t mix. Now it’s considered taboo in both the dating world and relationships. *If you’re in a committed relationship, you can head over to my post on How to Talk About Money in Relationships. The real problem is dating couples fail
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This one’s for my heart-on-their-sleeve wearers, love at first sighters, and prematurely attached in relationships – aka, when you end up falling for someone too hard, too fast. To some degree, this is likely something everyone has experienced, so the way I see it is it’s best to embrace it for what all relationships are
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