For the Men
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10 Uncomfortable reasons you should not get married
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Before deep-diving into this post, I first came up with a brief, rough-draft list. This list mounted well into the 20-something, yet I narrowed it down to the top 10 uncomfortable reasons you should not get married. Eeek. BUT, this post really isn’t all you think it will be. When I say uncomfortable reasons, what…
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Dear men, here’s why she doesn’t WANT to have sex
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Dear men, the literal fact is you keep missing the point. Notice, in caps, that I said want. This isn’t a matter of why she won’t; she won’t have sex with you, say, because she is waiting until marriage. This post extends to the bracket [of men] [with women] who fail to recognize the spectrum…
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Money and dating isn’t taboo – How to talk about money
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Money and relationships are often depicted to be like oil and water – they don’t mix. Now it’s considered taboo in both the dating world and relationships. *If you’re in a committed relationship, you can head over to my post on How to Talk About Money in Relationships. The real problem is dating couples fail…
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4 Signs of gaslighting in relationships – hello, it’s coming from you!
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Since gaslighting is a control tactic through manipulation, it’s almost a guarantee you have been gaslit at some point in your life – even thanks to politics, specialists, marketing, corporations, culture and social media. Gaslighting in relationships is no exception either. But while we’re pretty hyper-focused on the things in which happen to us, are…
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Boundaries you need to protect your marriage from an affair
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Did you know there are necessary boundaries to protect your marriage from an affair? I know, I know, some of ya’ll be like, “BuT wHy Do I nEeD tO pRoTeCt My MaRrIaGe FrOm SoMeThInG i WoUlD nEvEr Do? My PaRtNeR sHoUlD jUsT tRuSt Me!“ Okay, then: Why do you need an alarm system? You should…