Category: Dating

  • First date red flags to STOP sweeping under the rug

    This may get me in trouble, I don’t care, but I’m not into “following my heart”. The heart is deceptive, delusional, depraved and often fleeting. Following my heart has led me to chaos and destruction. Following my heart made me blind to dating red flags I saw coming or that I was already aware of.…

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  • Love vs. Attachment in relationships – what you need to know

    Did you know you form an attachment style early in childhood? In fact, there are multiple forms of attachment (healthy and unhealthy), but that’s not where I’m going with this post. And while attachment and Love are fairly interconnected (especially in relationships today), they are actually distinctly different and often confused. THAT’S what I want…

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  • Boundaries after a breakup – what they sound like and why you need them

    Breakups are hard. Setting and honoring boundaries after a breakup can be even harder. The most crucial part about heartache is the scared, lost, and deeply wounded inner child that is screaming out for help – to be seen, heard, and healed. And for many following a breakup, there is a continuation of self-betrayal through…

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  • 20+ FUN and FREE first date ideas without being “cheap”

    I don’t know about you but I sense a shift in the way dating works lately, especially post 2020. As if dating in itself isn’t already the same, first dates have also changed. Cost, activity, location, and time among a few things. These days I’m starting to notice a trend where first dates have become…

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  • We need to stop romanticizing these dating red flags

    We need to STOP romanticizing dating red flags. Because…”What you allow is what will continue,”, “The treatment we tolerate from others is a reflection of how we treat ourselves,”, and “Your worth is not determined by self-neglect.” Just a little dating food for thought there, since I am speaking from the very position where I,…

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