Dating

5 Reasons why coffee is a healthy first date idea

5 Reasons why coffee is a healthy first date idea

The case for coffee: Why simple first dates are better than fancy dates Despite the growing cringe and lack of appeal, I think grabbing coffee on a first date is actually practical and perfectly acceptable, and its simplicity can be a healthy choice when meeting someone for the first time. There’s a growing hated surrounding

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Are You Just Convenient to Him? 15 Signs He’s Using You

Are You Just Convenient to Him? 15 Signs He’s Using You

15 Signs he’s using you and what to do about it In the dating world, there are clear indicators of someone with disingenuous intentions and who is taking advantage of you. This really isn’t a foreign concept. People use people all. the. time. for things like personal gain, sex, money, drugs, attention, a place to

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People care more about protecting their socials and devices, as well as defending their online identity, reputation and digital world than their relationship. And it shows. Social media boundaries in relationships are just as important.

Why you need social media boundaries in relationships more than ever

Your significant other deserves respect on social media AND your devices. Why is this bold statement so triggering today? People care more about protecting their socials and devices, as well as defending their online identity, reputation and digital world than their relationship. And it shows. Social media boundaries in relationships are just as important. They

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5 Ways to make a good impression on a date

5 Ways to make a good impression on a date and still be your authentic self

There’s a movement in the dating community that involves showing up more authentically, unapologetically and even ruthlessly honest rather than focusing on making a good impression on a date. Young people are here for it because focusing on being their authentic self also means less, over-exaggerated performance. And while I totally get the positives of

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It would be hypocritical of me to condemn breakup texts when even I ended one of my previous long-term relationships over text message. To be fair, the breaking up part felt like it lasted weeks or months, and my final, "I'm done," breakup text - with nothing to follow thereafter - was like the nail in an already prepared coffin.

3 Reasons breakup texts are overrated and why you should stop sending them

Are there instances where breaking up over text makes the most sense? Absolutely, but they should be a last-ditch effort…not the norm. It would be hypocritical of me to condemn breakup texts when even I ended one of my previous long-term relationships over text message. To be fair, the breaking up part felt like it

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What a relationship moving too fast looks and feels like

What a relationship moving too fast looks and feels like

Here’s the thing: a relationship moving too fast may not look unhealthy from the outside, but can often feel the deepest, heaviest, most exhausting, painful and heart-gripping. Many connections that begin as a race are either painfully unaware of how quickly they’re getting to the finish line or are burning themselves out along the way

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6 Harmful dating trends that need more exposure

6 Harmful dating trends that need more exposure

In a culture geared towards self-betterment, are we still likely to engage in harmful dating trends (that continue being downplayed)? We’re more than willing to spread positive trends like gospel, that continue to circle the viral grapevine through the ages, but what about the not-so-healthy dating trends we know aren’t applause-worthy (for good reason) yet

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What is Ghosting in a relationship (+ What it's NOT)

What is ghosting in a relationship (+ what it’s NOT)

Ghosting in a relationship explained – what it means, looks like, as well as what Ghosting is NOT. Ghosting has been a major buzzword in relationships for some time, and increasingly when it comes to casual dating (minus exclusivity). It was a term originally derived from committed relationships, where someone would completely blindside their significant

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This begs the question for many: is your relationship genuine? Or are you guilty of Throning your partner?

Is your relationship genuine? 5 Signs you’re Throning your partner

We live in a tech-obsessed world, where many are now going as far as “dating-up” for popularity, reputation and an ego boost rather thancurating a genuine relationship. Now that we have the internet and social media readily at our fingertips, it already seems like nothing is considered sacred, private or genuine anymore, including our personal

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