As a now-married woman, gifting for my husband has not become any easier. Yet I still remember when we first started dating, I didn’t want to get him something that came off “desperate” or “too much, too soon”, you know? If this sounds like you – you’re in a new relationship and in need of gift ideas that coincide – hopefully this post makes it a little easier for you.
I think the main takeaway is to try not to overthink it – a gift is a good gift as any because you put thought into it. And this is something I’ve been drilling into my head year after year – over 10 years of gift-giving later.
Now, there’s no real rhyme or reason to this list – you may want to know a little bit about the person for these gifts to make sense, or you can take a gamble. What I factored into this list is the message – a message that says, “I like you – enough to give you a thoughtful gift – without coming across as moving too fast“.

In a new relationship? Here are 75+ gift ideas that aren’t *too much*
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For HIM
* = highly recommend!
man-candles
pocketknife
personalized beer mug
beard kit
whiskey/bourbon stones
funny day-to-day calendar
beef jerky assortment
at-home brew kit
stainless steel beer koozie
ladderball set *
beer flight
sensor toilet nightlight [funny]
grooming kit
GOT monopoly
manual to manhood (book) [funny]
desk organizer
grill-master accessories
mixology dice
cuff links
personalized necktie
tacklebox OR fishing tackle subscription box (you decide how many months to pay for)
car wash & wax kit
fishing or cooking knives
picture frame (with a picture of you both in it)
personalized coffee/tea mug
bottle cap plinko
DIY date night ideas box
personalized bottle opener
decanter
craft beer set
a video game
star wars coffee press
beer bottle chillers *
bathroom golf [funny]
dart board
personalized key ring
TV remote/accessory holder pillow
personalized hammer/tools
beer soap
cards against humanity [funny]
movie tickets
inflatable lounger *
“hopped” up coffee assortment
bacon candles
steak/fish grill planks
smoker chips
cookie assortment
tiki ring toss *
headphones
gift card to his favorite place to shop
personalized toiletry bag
sporting event tickets
multi-use survival credit card
old spice gift set
personalized flask
magnetic wristband
bbq rubs assortment
what do you meme game [funny] *
cold brew coffee press
massage oils
burt’s bees shave kit
52 uncommon dates book
paracord bracelet
For HER
* = highly recommend!